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Sam R. · Aug 22, 17:54

Anyone tried the Together features with their partner?

My partner and I just connected on here. Curious what others have found most useful — the check-ins, the games, or the explore cards?

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Anonymous · Aug 22, 17:52

Is scheduling intimacy actually a good idea?

Some people say schedule it, others say it should be spontaneous. What actually works?

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Taylor W. · Aug 21, 17:54

Best way to build anticipation throughout the day?

I want to create more excitement and buildup instead of everything feeling last-minute. What do you do?

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Taylor W. · Aug 21, 17:52

How to feel more confident in my body during intimacy

I struggle with body image and it makes intimate moments really stressful.

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Jessica M. · Aug 20, 17:54

How do you know if your relationship is in a rut or actually in trouble?

We still get along fine but the spark feels completely gone. Is that normal after 5 years or should we be worried?

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Alex K. · Aug 20, 17:52

Is it normal to not want sex as often as my partner?

We love each other but have very different levels of desire. I feel guilty and they feel rejected.

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Casey D. · Aug 19, 17:54

Relationship feels different after moving in together

We moved in 6 months ago and something shifted. Less effort, less romance, more routine. Is this inevitable?

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Casey D. · Aug 19, 17:52

Best way to reconnect after a fight?

We had a big argument and now things feel awkward physically.

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Alice · Aug 19, 02:45 · Communication

How do I bring up the topic of intimacy with a new partner?

I have been dating someone for a few weeks and things are going well. I want to have an open conversation about intimacy expectations and boundaries, but I am not sure how to start without making it a

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Bob · Aug 19, 02:45 · Relationships

Is it normal for desire to decrease after years together?

My partner and I have been together for eight years. We still love each other deeply, but the desire level has definitely decreased from the early days. Is this normal, and what can we do about it wit

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Carol · Aug 19, 02:45 · Intimacy & Connection

What are some mindfulness exercises for anxiety during intimate moments?

I tend to get anxious and distracted during intimate moments, which makes it hard to enjoy the experience. I have heard mindfulness can help. Could someone recommend specific exercises or techniques t

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Alice · Aug 19, 02:45 · Relationships

How to rebuild trust after a breach of boundaries?

My partner crossed a boundary I had clearly set, and while they apologized sincerely, I am struggling to feel safe again. We want to work through this together. What steps can we take to rebuild trust

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Bob · Aug 19, 02:45 · Sexual Wellness

Recommended resources for understanding body confidence?

I have struggled with body image for most of my adult life, and it really affects my intimate experiences. Beyond the courses here, are there any books, podcasts, or other resources that people have f

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Morgan L. · Aug 18, 17:54

How important is physical affection outside the bedroom?

My partner says they need more casual touch — hand holding, hugs, etc. — but I'm not naturally a touchy person. How do I get better at this?

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Jessica M. · Aug 18, 17:52

How do you bring up trying something new without making it weird?

My partner and I have been together for 3 years and I want to suggest some new things but I don't know how to start the conversation.

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