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Is it normal for desire to decrease after years together?

Bob · Aug 19, 2026 02:45 · Relationships

My partner and I have been together for eight years. We still love each other deeply, but the desire level has definitely decreased from the early days. Is this normal, and what can we do about it without putting pressure on either person?

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Alice ✓ Verified Expert

Aug 19, 2026 02:45

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Completely normal. Long-term desire requires intentional effort. Try scheduling dedicated time together, exploring new shared experiences, and maintaining some individual mystery.