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How do you bring up trying something new without making it weird?

Jessica M. · Aug 18, 2026 17:52

My partner and I have been together for 3 years and I want to suggest some new things but I don't know how to start the conversation.

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Sam R. Community member

Aug 19, 2026 17:54

We had the same situation. What worked for us was bringing it up outside the bedroom — like over dinner. Start with something you already enjoy together and frame the new thing as an addition, not a replacement. "I love when we... and I've been curious about also trying..." felt much safer than "I want to do something different."